the past doesn't matter. - daryl. These boys were almost always at least five to six years older than me, and I never knew them for more than a few days before giving them what they wanted. Join Yahoo Answers and get 100 points today. I did this for a year or two, until I was 14 and I found that having an eating disorder was just as destructive and didn’t require a second person. In law enforcement agencies they have a list of questions you answer, asking about things you have done and if you got caught or not. I'm sorry I can't offer any solutions but just wanted to say I can identify. Years Ago Lyrics: I didn't come to kiss the bride / So don't seat me on either side / I just came by to see the show / I'm close enough, I'll stand right here / I can see and I can hear; course / I So, don't hold these bad feelings about yourself inside to fester. There's probably not a person alive who hasn't made a mistake. that is what matters. You will make other mistakes as well. Learn from mistakes and move forward as a better person. 2. Yes. Now i have been wondering, if you did something, for example, 3 or 4 years ago and didnt get arrested or caught, could/would they arrest you now. I've been going through similar things myself. Get answers by asking now. 5 … Self Post. Maybe I have committed the unforgivable sin. For years I've felt guilty over something I did a long time ago. Yeah, the 'At the time, it was the best thing I could do' reminder is good. I'm starting to contact people I haven't seen for over 25 years as though I only saw them a week or two ago. Hello I am 30 years old and I am going through something very similar. There was a class trip to Disney one year and I had to room with this smelly guy that everyone thought was a loser. Feel so bad for something I did 7 years ago. Is that an Eckhart Tolle thing? What would you suggest?" Does getting drunk help increase my focus and help me feel motivated? I was diagnosed at age 16 as I was having terrible thoughts and I did not know what was wrong with me. I think I heard him say that. You will find the perfect role for you eventually. I only remember what I did, not anything that happened after to that situation. Hi, I'm Vivian and I'm 13 years old and I did something really bad :( I made a fake instagram account to scare my friend as a prank and I wrote stuff like "I'm from Mexico and I'm going to steal your sexy legs" as a joke to creep her out. I realize that several sexual things happened… Should I try to report them? Get a grip. Anxiety and panic attacks for about a year. Guilt is not from God - God convicts us so that we may repent and continue on our walk. On the 27th August 2007, I did something completely unremarkable that changed my life, over time. Use shame as valuable teacher. It's inevitable. I think I'm going slowly mad but it's some relief that I'm not the only one experiencing this sort of issue. About 2-3 years ago I did something bad? MAke this a story of your life make it your insipration to do something good. How do I not let myself be anxious and depressed this Christmas with social isolating due to Covid-19 and loss of family time. I then felt compelled to search for reasons for this , looking back at my past as far back as very young childhood and then was bombarded with memories of so many things I did that I now think were absolutely terrible. I was caught and they did not arrest me. You say that you are haunted by your mistake and that it has followed you and is interfering in your current life. 4. TWENTY YEARS AGO!" When today's grandparents were growing up, the world was a Wild West of unhealthy choices. I've been wondering this. Darius Foroux. Answer Save. Never delay seeking advice or dialling emergency services because of something that you have read on HealthUnlocked. When I recognise Im getting out of control with my thinking I try to bring myself back to the here and now and say out loud or in my head I acted like that years ago because at that time that was the best thing I could do, or just accept a situation happened for whatever reason and that's past. I can’t believe it was 8 years ago or that it changed my life, but hey it was and it did – it’s a fast life, I’ll share the quick story today before I get back into my travel tales from backpacking in banging Bangladesh. Well, finally we got you. People make mistakes and go through phases, we change how we feel all the time and realise the things we did are bad or were bad at the time. Appreciate any answers! you've done your mistake, now it is time to learn from it, and don't do it again. Two years (almost 3) when I was 15, I was dating an 18 year old. Instead of shame being bad, Worried the dizziness might be something bad! I Did Something Stupid 2 Years Ago; Report; I attempted to steal something small and stupid from a local walmart. Hey Dawn, thank you so much, it really does do something for me when someone else knows. I'm just having difficulty forgetting someone from Years ago..I relate every guy I meet tim HIM!!!! In kindergarten I was taken advantage of the entire year by several older kids. Living in the past would not make you better in life. I committed a sin..It was also just plain wrong..a person who does not practice a faith would know what I did was sooooooooo bad..it was really really bad & it's been haunting me ever since.. I'm starting to contact people I haven't seen for over 25 years as though I only saw them a week or two ago. With me it started with a feeling of guilt that I couldn't explain. When you feel better about yourself, you will be able to begin to see each person as an individual. ? Been anxious all week for something I did years ago, why am I suddenly obsessing over this and what can I do? Pick an industry you love and start at the bottom. If you belong to a church, speak to your minister. You are most certainly not alone. But with all this I have understood one thing that if you have done something you would never need a reassurance it's your OCD that forces you to go back and ruminate and make you anxious so the best thing one can do is if the brain tries to trick you it's better you trick the brain by just letting the thoughts be as it is and dont care or dont make it your reality and also never ever go back in life and try and recall your events because it will take away all your mental energy and you will start believing things that are not even real which would make you more anxious. Answer Save. People occasionally do bad things, and they shouldn’t be ostracized just because they will do them again as soon as they can. Question 18: "I feel ashamed about something I did a few years ago and I can't get over it. No its not a quote from Eckhart Tolle? He fell asleep with his mouth open in a chair so I had my friends come in and we all took pictures with our cocks up to his mouth as if he were blowing each one. I would say that you need to try to forgive what happened in the past and try and move on. I just wrote a very long piece and sadly this forum login expired and i've lost it all. I also suffer from depersonalisation which makes it worse because I feel like I'm looking at myself and my past through someone else's eyes and that person feels a stranger. I know asking it on here probably isn't the best idea but I just really need advice right now. I have not fully forgiven myself & it effects me badly especially when I meet a new guy..I have lost my trust in others. As I was coming into work this morning I had unwanted thoughts from 30years ago I had to stop it quick as I could feel it getting out of control. Too bad he ended up dying instead of killing Quasi. I will have to write it all again later. 3. Thanks Jen, I just needed someone else to say that yes, they have experienced this. Forgiveness. it was in the past. Like Dawn, I try to recollect trivial details from events that happened as long ago as the eighties and I get so incredibly anxious if I'm unable to remember every little thing. People make mistakes and go through phases, we change how we feel all the time and realise the things we did are bad or were bad at the time. I did something bad over two years ago and he won't leave it alone. just get on with your life.... if you don't forgive yourself- then no one else will. Moana: After Moana finds some old ships hidden in a cave discovers that her people were once voyagers, her father sets off to burn said ships like he said he should have done long ago. Find someone to talk to. My wife who was my girlfriend at the time was grabbed by a man in the club as we were leaving. And one tip for everyone I would like to give never ever fear your ocd thoughts to the point you start ruminating once you stop fearing and thinking over it again and again they will.lose their power and you will be happy again. I go over and over things that happened 20 plus years ago and I drive myself mad trying to recreate all the details and the whys and whats if. Just a feeling in the pit of my stomach, along with anxiety and dread. I’ve already paid the terrible price of being fairly upset for a few days. Guilt is from the temptor, he uses it to remind you of your past so that you are bound to it. But I know it... 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